It’s not the first time on this blog that we’ve discussed the importance of being passionate about your job, but it’s about time that we discuss what to do if you just can’t find that passion. Loving what you do every day is the key ingredient to being great at what you do, but no matter how little you like your job, pulling up roots and leaving is a scary situation.
Most of us rank stability pretty high on the list when we look at out lives, so the thought of being out of work or starting all over again in a new field can inspire fear in even the most adventurous of souls. The fact is, though, that staying at a job you don’t love shouldn’t even be one of your options.
Think of it like an emergency appendectomy. Going under the knife might be terrifying and the results unknown, but if you don’t have surgery you aren’t going to make it. No one would ever consider not having an emergency appendectomy if they knew it was suicide! Staying at a job that you can’t muster any passion or energy for is career suicide, and the only operation that might save you is quitting.
Besides, staying at an uninspiring job isn’t fair to you, it isn’t fair to the people who might love an opportunity to have your position, and it isn’t fair to your employer who pays you regularly with an expectation that you’re giving them your best. Once you make the decision to leave your job, though, most of us can’t just pack up and move out instantly. There are people to support and loose ends to tie up.
We’ll talk in more depth about leaving your position the right way over the next few weeks, but for now, here are a couple of important things to consider once you’ve decided that you wont ever be able to love your job:
- Set a hard “quitting” date – Like anything else that scares us in life, our natural instinct is to create a million excuses for why we haven’t acted yet. Setting a firm date for when you will quit prevents you from waffling about what you know is right for your future.
- Don’t take another passionless job – This may seem like a no-brainer, but it’s surprising how many people leave the jobs they don’t love to do the exact thing somewhere else. Don’t fall into this trap. The grass is not greener if you don’t change the seeds!
- Don’t
burn bridges – When it comes time to give your notice, give your employer
adequate time to replace you and offer to train your replacement. You should also be candid about your reason
for leaving. Most people are supportive when they know that you are doing what’s
best for you. Finally, stay in touch
with the people that you respected during your tenure. Most people have multiple jobs in their
career, and you never know when those connections will deliver amazing
opportunities down the road.
Leaving your job is scary, but there is a right way to get it done. Remember, it isn’t nearly as frightening as a lifetime at a job that doesn’t excite you.
